Wednesday, May 13, 2009

Despite my best intentions, I seem to have let the updatery of the blog slide. I have been writing, and promise that once things are edited a bit and don't sound like the ramblings of a crazy person (an amazing feat, considering that's what they are), they will find their way here anyway.

Not that it matters, since I'm 99% certain no one reads this blog.

It's more for me.

And the fact that I always lose papers and journals, so digital copies of writings are always a safe bet.

Thursday, March 12, 2009

current all-consuming thought

Driving vehicles with standard transmissions will be my white whale.

Thursday, March 5, 2009

Callous missuse of grade school grammar.

An in depth study of the apostrophe.

Correct uses: An apostrophe is used to indicate possession.
Example: The queen’s tea was lovely.

An apostrophe is used when combining two words to form a contraction.
Example: I can’t understand your confusing computer jargon without a few stiff drinks.

Incorrect uses: To make anything plural. This includes advertisements in any form of media (magazines, newspapers, television and internet), books of intelligent or unintelligent matter and signs of any kind, including handmade and professional.
Example: Child-sized apples’ for sale. Razors’ included!

Thursday, February 19, 2009

presidents, race, and apery



vs.




As a student of history and an involved citizen in general, I try reallyhard to understand the issue of race in this country. I get it. We've had a rough past. However, isn't it time to move on?

The cartoon on top was published in the New York Post to immediate outcries of "racist!" But how racist can a depiction of the President as a monkey really be when we've spent the last eight years comparing the president to a chimpanzee?

I think one of the main problems regarding race in this country is the fact that people want to get offended. Take the percieved racism out of the cartoon and read it again. Aha! Now it says that Washington is full of chimps who are bungling up the economy! I get it!

But that would not be enough. Let's make a big deal out of it. Of course, Al Sharpton had a few words to say on the subject. From an article on CNN: "Again, Al Sharpton reveals himself as nothing more than a publicity opportunist," he said, referencing a news release the civil rights activist sent out blasting the paper and demanding an apology."

And because that scathing commentary on Sharpton's practices regarding race in society was written by the author of "Listening to the Spirit Within: 50 Perspectives on Faith"and "Speak, Brother! A Black Man's View of America," it was OK.

To everyone in this country, regardless of color: CHILL OUT.





Tuesday, February 17, 2009

Farm


Growing up we didn’t have neighborhood ball games in the middle of the street that were put on hiatus to accommodate the passing fare. Growing up we didn’t have ice cream trucks parked between on the corner between to streets named for trees, diminutive customers lined up in the evening summer sun to buy drumsticks and freeze pops and those little Italian ices with mom and dad’s five dollar bills. We didn’t go to Girl Scout meetings or play dates with the neighbors. And we sure as hell never took outings to the country.
When people wanted country, they came to us. We ran barefoot through cow pastures, holding sticks and herding cows back to the barn at night. We built forts in patches of woods with entire fields as our front yard. We spent entire summers cleaning up and training cows to walk on a halter, then showing them in the fair. We built hay tunnels, had roving games of hide and seek that encompassed the entire farm and spent countless late afternoon summer hours sitting at the very top of the big barn, staring out of the hay loft into the setting sun.

The farm I grew up on stands alone in a vast wasteland of suburban refuse. Like an oasis in the driest of deserts, the lopsided barns from another century, the cow pastures and acre after acre of open fields are a testament to another time in the area’s history. To see cows standing around a barn yard chewing cud and flapping at the flies with their tails has transformed from commonplace to extraordinary and a car slow down drastically in front of the heifer yard is not uncommon. It’s easy to picture the suburban mother with her kids strapped tightly into her sports utility tank explaining the sights to the kids. “See that Evan? See those cows Emma? That’s where milk comes from!” Of course, the kids are less interested in the animals than what’s on TV in the backseat and who can blame them? They’re only interested in what they have been told is interesting and a large group of black and white animals standing in their own shit and chewing their throw up doesn’t fall into that category.

It’s no wonder, then, that small farms like the one I grew up on are a dying breed. People just don’t care. When you go to the grocery store, you pay a price for milk. That price, however high it may be, however, does not reflect what the farmer is being paid to produce the milk. When asked what formula is used to determine the price of the milk the farmers sell, government agencies usually respond with “it’s a complicated formula.” I’m a pretty smart person: try me. But they never do. So the small farmer suffers. Right now, to produce a gallon of milk costs two cents more than it can sell for. Producing thousands of gallons of milk every single day can add up pretty fast. Planting ornamental grasses and sod and selling the cows as fast as you can find buyers is a more fiscally sound option, and one that many small dairy farmers are opting to do.

Selling the land in the current economy isn’t a viable option, but something will have been lost once the cows are gone. Sure, they smell. Sure, they’re a lot of work. But when it comes down to it, they are the farm. Imagining walking down the road to the farm two years from now at feeding time and not hearing those desperate “feeeeed meeeeeee” moos from the calf barn creates a pit in my stomach. Thinking that I will have to wait with the rest of them for an open farm day somewhere in the county to pet a newborn calf and let her suck on my fingers makes me want to cry. And spending my late afternoon summer hours in the top of the hay loft looking out over pampas grasses or a blue fescue does not seem a good substitute for watching cows trudge slowly back home after a long day of eating and relaxing in the warm summer air.


Monday, January 19, 2009

If ever there was someone to keep me at home it would be you.

Saturday, January 17, 2009

question

Will Condy McCain join the 'Dancing' cast?



God, I hope so.

I really do.

could've been

I received an invitation to my ex-boyfriend’s wedding last year and decided to bring an extremely good looking man to the reception as my guest. The only problem is, Mike knows me too well. “How much did you pay for this one?” he asked coyly. “He’s my live-in boyfriend. We’ve been dating for over a year,” I announced to the entire table. With eyebrows all around raised, several awkward seconds pass before I, of course, cave and share the truth because it’s something we would have laughed for hours about over coffee in the morning, in a different world. I motioned him inwards and whispered in his ear, “He came with a deep discount because of the prosthetic leg.” Mike recoiled, trying to suppress the mad giggle I know far too well. Looking over at my date, his eyes traveled downwards and then back to me. We locked eyes for a moment and both had to duck into ourselves, checking outright laughter. This is, after all, a formal occasion. Red-faced and still sputtering, he heads back to kiss the little Mrs. when the champagne glasses start ringing. I can’t help but notice that he glanced over his shoulder at me as he walked away.

Sunday, January 11, 2009

thunk

It’s one of the saddest things I’ve ever seen. Right up there with my father carrying one sixth of the casket of his best friend’s daughter and cracking up crying when someone says “it’s not a very heavy load, at least” and old men sitting alone and expressionless on park benches.

It breaks my heart to see it, but I keep turning the porch light back on and going over to see it, the little broken neck turned grotesquely into the snow that fell just this morning. The streak-free shine of the transparent murder weapon, blocking out the winter chill. I heard the bang on the patio door earlier in the afternoon, when I was watching the birds pick seeds one at a time out of the feeder we hung from the silver maple out front. I said to no on in particular, “stupid bird just hit the window” and went over to investigate. The poor little thing was on the ground, writhing, twisting it’s brown striped and freckled wings without effect.

“Daddy!” I cried, as if I were six again. “Daddy! It’s suffering!” Silence responded from the other room like a punch in the mouth. “Daddy!” I tried again, “shouldn’t we do something?” Still, no response. Finally the little bird ceased to move anymore and lay still. “I think its dead.” I announce, still talking to without regard to who’s listening. “Maybe it’s just stunned,” my mom interjects, unhelpfully. “It might wake up and fly away.” Several hours later and it’s still there. The sad little twisted bones and the possibility of flight cut short by an invisible foe. The tail feathers erupt at an odd angle, suggesting catastrophe.

Every time I think about the thunk and the show of death it performed I feel a little more dead on the inside; like the sadness is washing over more of me with each thought. And yet I know I’m going to walk back over there once again before I climb under my covers, flick the switch back to the on position and look at that little bird one more time.

Sunday, January 4, 2009

the edge

I've heard it said that you've got your whole life ahead of you. Though all of a sudden, the rest of the crew has surged forward to center stage and I'm left standing alone in the back, trying to remember which foot is supposed to move where and wondering whether its worth it to try to catch up, or if it would be better just to run off stage and console myself over a basket of greasy fries in the cafeteria.

Of course, there remains the question of whether or not its really worth smothering my face in cooking oil when the zits start popping up. All of a sudden, center stage seven beats behind doesn't seem like such a bad option after all.
On the other hand, there remains the problem of trying to do something I was never cut out for in the first place. Turns out that during rehearsals, my mind was on the fryalator the entire time.

However, I am worried that if I don't do something, I will spend my entire life wondering who it was that put the toliet paper roll on backwards before realizing the only person it could have been was myself, then analyzing the whys and whatfors of backwards toliet paper for the rest of a wonderful evening with only myself and my basket of pimples for company.

Friday, January 2, 2009

juncture

New Year's Resolution.

Write.

You say that I can. That it's a natural talent given to me by the one that created and creates and cares and destroys, but I don't utilize it like I should. You say that when my thoughts flow out into letters that create words seaming into rivers of sounds, patterns of expression and conclusions it means something to those around me, but I choose quiet introspection and a silent inner commentary of the lives around me over communication.

I've wished to be talented my entire life. I wanted to draw cartoons of the nasty teacher and make my classmates laugh, but my artisan apprenticeship fell short with a few lines and circles. I wanted to be an athlete, running like I was born to, dodging defenses with the ball dancing at my feet, but my stardom fell short with a few clumsy passes and zero points. I wanted to be in movies, on stage or spend time behind a microhpone, but my inclination towards enternainment fell short when I realized I'm not entertaining.

I've wished to be good, to be famous, to be accomplished at anything, but discounted my ability to compose passages that mean something to someone. Ignoring the one thing I can do without wondering if I'm good enough. Blocking out the one thing I can do without having to constantly second guess myself. Ignoring my ability to put feelings into words, onto paper and spread. I'm done wishing for something that isn't going to happen. I'm done wondering why I'm not good at anything that counts, when something I am good at is right in front of my nose. Writing counts. Writing is my talent. I can't change it or make it count for less or more. Writing is.

New Year's Resolution.

Write.

Saturday, October 4, 2008

I am an eight year old boy.

Yes, I know I haven't updated about Colorado, but really; no one reads this blog anyway, so it doesn't really matter, now does it?

I promise that I'm in the process of making something cool for this blog about my trip, but all of a sudden, things got really busy and I haven't been able to finish it yet.

But I absolutely could not resist this. I was reading the news and came upon my new favorite person in the world:

"Schools Secretary Ed Balls told Sky News Mr Brown had taken "a risk" - but said it was the right decision.
He insisted the new business secretary was "devoted" to public service.
Mr Balls said: "Of course it's a risk, but at the same time, it's also a great opportunity for our country and our government."


Hee hee: Ed Balls. Mr. Balls.

Wednesday, September 10, 2008

Monday, September 1, 2008

On A Hill

She sits in a lonely field somewhere in upstate New York, the busy farm in the valley below suddenly quiet as the minute and hour hands meet together at the peak of the clock face. A solitary being seems to make sense.

With only the birds and the light breeze as distraction, suddenly the anxiety and business everday life brings melts away. Baking for a while in the sun to the satisfaction of the freckles whose existence sunshine births, she moves suddenly into the shade of the ancient maples lining the peimeter of the field. Surpsising, as she does, a rabbit and black bird out of their exclusive thicket.

She places her worn pack on the remains of a rock wall and takes a drink of sun-warmed water. Reluctantly taking note of the time, she shuffles through her pack, pulls out a book and settles down for a blissful two hours before being forced to re-enter the world of schedules and distraction.

Friday, August 22, 2008

Consolation Prize

As a consolation prize to myself for not finding a job and feeling a lot like a failure at life, I'm going to Colorado for a week and a little bit, most likely on September 18 until September 28 to visit my sister, Kelly.

I wasn't going to go, but every reason I could come up with in my head for not going seemed stupid when compared to every reason for going. When else will I have the opportunity to pack up for somewhere really awesome right at one of my favorite times of year? Exactly.

She works during the week, so I wanted to find someone to come with me, so that half the trip wouldn't be me sitting around, waiting for Kelly to get done. I asked a bunch of people and everyone was kind of lukewarmly interested, but Long Haired Jay said yes! I was kind of surprised because usually I come up with awesome plans, friends express interest and it fizzles out soon after.

We've got to buy plane tickets and I'm ordering a cheap-o tent online. My dad is lending us some camping gear and I am so, so, so excited to go take pretty pictures and be all outdoorsy and adventurous.

It's really nice to have something to look forward too again.

Sunday, August 10, 2008

Defeat

Yesterday was Dan and Danielle's wedding. The ceremony happened in the cutest of all cute churches, out in the middle of nowehere in the Gunx and it was really nice. The reception was at the Thomas Bull Park, which, for some reason everyone calls the Orange County Park, even though it really isn't.

It was great fun hanging out with everyone: chatting, playing a coupla sports, eating and last (and least), ending the evening with a giant Nerf gun war.

We decided it wasn't time to end the party, though: and came back to my house and had a fire on the hill. It was a little too impromptu because we didn't actually have any food or anything, but somewhere along the line a few hotdogs and buns showed up along with chips. Sadly, it wasn't enough for some people at the party, who started eating raw corn out of the field. Did I mention they brought alcohol? No?

I was feeling like a Debby Downer at the party because when I got to the house, I picked up the mail and there was the "thanks for playing" letter from Seekonk High School. I found this one really tough to handle because it was the interview that I felt actually went well and it was a school I had a real desire to teach in.

I pick up the mail and I'm trying really hard not to cry, but I just couldn't stick it, so I went inside, smacked a few things around and really let it out. Then I washed the streaming mascara off of my face and went back out. I made it the whole night with only having to go off by myself and have a big cry...which is pretty good for me.

So it looks like I'll almost certainly be in New York for next year. It's not all bad, because I do really enjoy my friends and it would be much easier to keep hanging out with them, instead of having to come up with a bunch of new friends, but still: this isn't at all what I had in mind for myself after college. I feel pretty lost. I keep thinking to myself, "I just want to go home." But then I realize, I don't really know where that is anymore.

Saturday, August 2, 2008

OMG! I (indirectly) know the Dalai Lama?

I just saw this article http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/25988549/?GT1=43001 that claims to confirm that game we all enjoy playing and in my case, enjoy being really bad at: Six Degrees to Kevin Bacon.

If you've no desire to read the article, it basically says that the game is true and that there are 6.6 degrees of separation between people linked through aquaintences.

However, the article continues on to pretty much discredit itself:

"The idea was taken up again, this time on a global scale, by Columbia University researchers in a 2003 report of an e-mail experiment. More than 24,163 volunteers agreed to try to send an e-mail through acquaintances to one of 18 target persons in 13 countries. Only 384 of those 24,163 letter chains were completed. Of those completed chains, the average number of steps was 4, and using statistical techniques, the researchers estimated that the average length in all of the chains was between five and seven steps. Still, it was an estimate."

Well if that isn't solid statistical data, then I don't know what is.

Besides, this six step theory cannot be true because there are people out in the world (like this tribe who haven't talked to someone from the outside in up to 60,000 years: http://www.survival-international.org/news/136 ) who don't have any outside contact outside their tribe. I can very safely guarentee you that I am not connected to any one of them in six or even six thousand steps.

Friday, August 1, 2008

Love your mother (earth).

The newest thing at Glen Arden is a sudden and intense need to recycle.

I've been working there for five years and have never once seen a recycling bin anywhere in the building. All of a sudden, starting this week, they are popping up everywhere! Recycling bins are nice and I am a large proponent of recycling, but what people don't realize is that when the housekeepers remove the liners of the bins, they and all of their contents go straight into the dumpster.

Recycling: It's the Thought That Counts!

Want


I find it really annoying when things that I think are cool suddenly become mainstream and all of a sudden, there are a bunch of people who want to be just like what they were making fun of before.


However, things I like going mainstream does make it a lot easier to get new things. No more shuffling through 3X nightshirts and Army-issue chemical protective pants (with what appears to be chemical spilling out of them) to find vintage tshirts!


Now I can just buy them online! (Rather, I could buy them online, if they didn't cost $25 each.)


Aren't they cool, though?